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Focus on What You Have to Gain

 

When it comes to weight loss, gaining is not something that usually makes anyone happy. But when you think about the personal and internal growth you experience when you make a big, positive change in your life, gaining something like that isn’t a bad thing at all. We all feel anxious and self conscious at some point in our weight loss journey – sometimes at the beginning because we aren’t sure if we can do it, sometimes in the middle when we feel like giving up, and sometimes at the end when we can’t seem to reach the finish line. When you are worrying about losing, sometimes it can help you find the motivation you need by thinking about what you have to gain.

 

Self Discipline: the ability to control one’s feelings and overcome one’s weaknesses to pursue what is right despite the temptation to abandon it. Strengthening your self discipline starts as soon as you decide to lose weight and get healthy. You take control of your life and you stop waiting for the “right” time – you make it the right time. You don’t let food rule your life anymore and you make smart choices. You resist the temptations around you and even when you hit a bump in the road, you have the power and tools to get back on track. No more over eating or over indulging – you have a plan and you are sticking to it. Even when you feel weak, you have the strength and self-discipline to stay focused and reach your goals because you already took the first step to getting healthy, which is more than most people accomplish.

 

Self Confidence: a feeling of trust in one’s abilities, qualities and judgement. It’s more than just looking better, it’s about feeling better. Eating healthy and losing weight will make you feel better physically and also give you mental and emotional strength. Proving to others, and more importantly to yourself, that you are capable of going after something you want and achieving it is an amazing feeling that will boost your self confidence and keep you on track. The trust in yourself in extremely important. Knowing that you can go into any situation with confidence and make the choices that you are proud of is invaluable – all you have to do is stick to the plan and success will follow.

 

Self Awareness: conscious knowledge of one’s own character, feelings, motives and desires. Making the decision to lose weight is an important step to becoming more aware of what we are capable of and what we really want in life. It helps us separate what seems important now and what is more important to us in the long run. Losing weight is a long journey, which helps us with patience, endurance, and persistence – qualities that will make you a more self aware person who knows what is takes to get what you really want. Reaching a goal that you had to fight for will keep you on a the right path long after your success and reinforce the positive change you achieve. Accomplishing one goal (losing weight) can give you the motivation and strength to go after other goals and continuously grow as a person.

 

The most important thing to remember is that you should never underestimate yourself. Everyone has to start somewhere and the important things in life never come easy. I can give you the rules and tools to help you lose weight – but only you have the power within yourself to change and reach your goals.

 

~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick