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September 27, 2019By Josephine Fitzpatrick

Don’t say one thing and then do another…….

With the holidays approaching and schedules are full I know many of you are already thinking — how am I going to get through this coming week— when in reality it shouldn’t be that difficult.  Holidays should be about you being surrounded with family and friends and celebrating love, health, happiness and the New Year and the blessings it brings.   Just like the mind controls the body — how you treat and celebrate Rosh Hashanah will reflect the rest of your year.  With that said you do not want to go in saying one thing and doing another.   So if you plan on staying clean do it and if you plan on cheating enjoy it.  The important thing is to follow through on what you plan.

 

I think one of the most important things about the Innovation Program is it gives you the opportunity to have a cheat day once a week.  It’s meant to be a day where you can enjoy without guilt.  However, we sometimes get caught up in when we want it that is most convenient for us VS. when we should use it.  Let me explain further….  if you normally have a cheat day on Saturday  — but you are celebrating Rosh Hashanah on Monday because that is when you will be with family and friends then you should use Monday as your cheat day.  Instead what we tend to do is go on about how we don’t like the food that is going to be served, and we don’t want to waste a cheat day on a holiday.  So instead you have the Cheat Day on the Saturday like you normally do so you can indulge in what you want — but then you end up having Matzo Ball Soup, Challah bread and a couple of drinks on the holiday…. all while telling yourself it wasn’t that much.  And you will justify it by saying you did not want to be that person who couldn’t eat.  But in reality you didn’t have to be that person — you could have just chosen to use your cheat day on the holiday as that is exactly what it is for.   So now you have had two cheat days and you could have easily had one and saved it for the holiday to enjoy with those you love —  or as we know family and holidays are tricky — you could have enjoyed your cheat day on the holiday with a couple of extra drinks if you happen to be surrounded by those you love but drive you crazy 🙂

 

If we are going to ask something from the Almighty then we should be prepared to help him out.  — If you want the right things in your life then you have to do the right things to make it happen.  Rosh Hashanah is about starting your New Year with asking G-d to grant a year of peace, prosperity, and blessings of health and happiness.  But we must remember even when we ask for blessings — it’s up to us to do the right things to make them happen.  If you ask for positive in your life but take all negative steps after asking — then 9 out of 10 times you will get negative results.  One of the most important things we learn in any religion is that asking is not enough —  and it shouldn’t be enough.  Anything you ask, pray or hope for has to be followed up with positive work to receive what you want.  It’s not ask and you shall receive—  it’s ask, and then follow that request up with hard work and positive steps.  Only then will you have the greatest chance of achieving the most precious life changing results.

 

RECAP…   getting through the weekend and the holidays shouldn’t be stressful when it comes to food.  You pick your cheat and you follow your plan.  It’s like any other weekend — you can’t cheat more than one day and expect to lose weight that week.  If you stick to your 6 days on and 1 day off you will lose.  Keep it all in perspective.  If you want to ask, pray or hope for a great healthy year then follow it up by starting the holiday with doing what you planned.  If you are cheating then cheat and enjoy, and if you are staying on program — then plan it and follow through.   There are always options and having the cheat day gives you the flexibility to stay on program or have your cheat day and enjoy.

 

Whether it’s weight loss, happiness, health, love, career, prosperity OR all of the above — regardless of what or who you believe in it all  comes down to doing the right things, working hard and staying on your healthy path.  Because as we all know positive actions = positive results.

 

Don’t ask G-d to guide your footsteps if you are not willing to move your feet

~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick

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October 18, 2017By Josephine Fitzpatrick

When Is It Enough?

 

ARE YOU WAITING?… The biggest mistake so many people make is waiting. Is it the right time? Should I wait until next week? When summer is over?… After the holidays… Thanksgiving is coming I will start in December… What you must understand is when something is hard and uncomfortable you are never going to feel like doing it. No one really wants to ever step out of their comfort zone. But if you don’t step out of it and never push yourself to where you want to be, you will never reach your full potential. You will never reach your dreams of who you are and what you really want. You will end up being one of those people who just kept waiting… floating.… making excuses…. never really finding the right time and never quite feeling the true happiness of where you are and who you are.

 

CHOOSE THE GOOD… There is good and bad – there is non committed and committed, and there is positive and negative. If you let it – The bad, Non committed and Negative will always win over the Good, Committed and Positive. Why? Because it’s easier. It’s easier to make the excuse and it’s easier to be overweight, and it’s easier to float through life not really committing or working hard for what you want. It’s always going to be harder to commit to doing the right things, to work hard and stay positive. It all comes down to what you want out of life and how hard you are willing to work for it. How long you are willing to put aside your dreams and how long you are willing to feel the unhappiness of not being comfortable with who you are or are becoming. But just remember when you take the easy path you have to live with the consequences of it everyday. There will be a time that you look back and say, Why? Why did I give in to overeating when I know it made me so miserable? Why did I spend so much time unhappy and spreading that unhappiness to those I love for something I could have worked hard to change? Why did I use every excuse and bring so much negativity in my life for something that I can’t even remember if I enjoyed or not? Why didn’t I just work hard and do the right thing if I new that was what was going to make me happy.

 

THE HARD YOU DON’T SEE… The past couple of weeks even through the holidays and after – we had so many clients who did amazing. They got on the scale and saw the number go in the right direction and it just motivates them to keep going. In order to gain that motivation you need to commit to yourself and work hard. Very hard. The clients who reach their goal and look amazing – they work so hard. It’s the kind of hard you don’t see. The routine of staying on when everyone else is off. They stay on their path because they know it makes them happy. They know it makes them feel good and, most important, they have come to realize that their actions have consequences. They are consequences that are not worth the results. For them, it’s about feeling good all the time. Doing the right things and putting the work in even when it’s hard. You see, when you stay committed when it’s hard that’s what makes all the difference in the results. It’s easy to stay on path when you are in a good place. It’s easy to stay on when everything is perfect in your world. But we all know those days are few and far between. What really shows who you are and what you want is when you stay on program when it’s hard. When the temptation is in front of you and you walk away. When you know and commit to doing the right thing because you know that is what makes you feel your best. Think about what really makes you happy and work toward it. I am a firm believer that if you work hard and stay on your path it will lead you to the best possible results. But again, you can’t just do it when it’s easy – you have to stay on that path when it’s hard. When it’s challenging when everyone around you is going off of the path, you have to stay on it. When your life has challenges and things just aren’t going your way – you have to stay on it. That’s when you will see the best results, and the hard work and commitment that you have made to yourself will pay off and change you in the most positive way as a person. It changes you into the person you want to be – and the strong person that you knew existed. The one that was waiting to come out and work hard and take advantage of the wonderful life you have and feel good everyday living it.

 

ONE LIFE TO DO THE RIGHT THING… You need to remember that you get one life and that doesn’t mean that you should spend it indulging and abusing your days. It means that you should appreciate each day and spend them doing what makes you happy and feel good today and tomorrow and the next day. That’s the key. It’s not only about today – there are lots of negative things that we can do today that will make us feel great for the moment, but will you have that same feeling about it tomorrow? You need to focus and spend your time making sure that how you treat your body and mind today will give you the same or better result and feelings tomorrow and the next day. When you do that, you are creating positive links that will change the outcome of your future. Some lives are more challenging than others but you need to stay focused and stay positive and committed to what you want because that is the only way you will get it.

 

MAKE THE COMMITMENT… If you want to change and be the amazing person that you know is inside of you… then you need to commit to yourself and what you want. Commit to your dream and understand that it won’t be easy but the stronger you are the further you will get. Committed people go the extra mile to reach their goals. Isn’t that who you want to be? Don’t you want to put the work in to become the most amazing person you can be? Only you can do it. Listen, life is hard and weight loss is hard but at the end of the day it’s something you can control. You have to want it more than what’s on the table, in the cabinets or in the glass. It has to be about you, your dreams and your commitment to yourself and those you love. You know what will make you happy and you know what makes you sad – you need to work hard for the happy because we all know the sad will win if you let it. But when you put the work into what makes you happy it’s truly life changing. Before you know it, it will become second nature and you will feel that positive feeling of being committed to yourself and what you want. It’s always a great feeling to do the right thing, and doing the right thing always creates amazing results.

 

KEEP WORKING HARD… The more work you put in to this and in to yourself is what makes the difference between where you are and where you are going. And at the end of the day we all know what we really want – it’s just a question if you are going to keep making excuses for yourself or are you going to commit to being the positive, hard working person who does the right thing, stays on the healthy path and creates the happiness you want and deserve. You have the control and the want to do it – now you just have to put it into action – and when you do it you will see everything has been right in front of you waiting for you to make the changes to become the lighter, fitter, healthier person that you always wanted to be.

 

STAY COMMITTED BECAUE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU IS YOUR DREAM

 

 ~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick
Innovation Weight Loss and Fitness
8031 Jericho Tpke Woodbury, NY 11797
211 E 43rd Street Manhattan, NY 10019
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January 25, 2016By Josephine Fitzpatrick

The Three C’s of Weight Loss

When it comes to reaching a real and important goal there are no shortcuts. Making an effective and long lasting change in your habits and lifestyle takes time and determination, and unfortunately there are no secret ways to make things easier and quicker. This is especially true for weight loss because you are going through a physical and mental change. You engage your whole body and mind to reach a weight loss goal. Even though there is no magic spell that will make everything happen overnight, there are three key things to keep in mind and use in your weight loss plan that will help you reach your goal.

 

COMMITMENT

 

Having mental strength is one of the most important tools in your arsenal. You have to have the strength to resist temptations and you also have to have the strength to pick yourself up and keep yourself motivated when things get difficult. When you doubt yourself, remember how committed you felt when you started. You were full of hope and optimism, and ready to take on anything. It’s hard to constantly stay in this state of excitement and confidence, but hold on tight to your commitment. It will keep you going.

 

CONVENIENCE

 

It’s not possible to snap your fingers and get everything we want, but there are ways to make things easier for yourself. Do you have trigger foods that cause you to binge and munch mindlessly? Don’t buy them, even if you tell yourself you won’t touch them or over indulge. Don’t put yourself in that position. Are you planning on going out to a meal or outing? Take a look at the menu ahead of time and have a plan whenever possible. Don’t play it by ear and make decisions in the moment. Do you plan to start or re-commit yourself to exercise? Find a gym or facility that is close to where you live or work and easy to get to. In the winter it will be hard to get out of the house, not to mention going to the gym and working out. If you want to exercise at home, find a space to put the equipment you want to use and get any equipment you want now. It will be hard to skip a workout when all you have to do is get out of bed and get dressed. Putting in a little extra work ahead of time will make your life so much easier when it comes time to execute your plans.

 

CONSISTENCY

 

This quality is crucial. All the efforts you make mean nothing if you wipe them away the day after. Consistency is the key to your success. It may feel tedious, fighting little battles every day and not getting dramatic results week after week. The truth is, you don’t want dramatic weight loss. When it goes off too quickly, it will come back just as quick which is never healthy. There is a saying: Be stubborn about your goals and flexible about your methods. Consistency doesn’t mean you always have to do the same thing day in and day out, but you do have to make smart and healthy choices that bring you closer to your goals every day.

 

When you bring these three qualities together and use them as a guide in your weight loss you will have a strong sense of confidence and direction. Decide what you want, go after it with the right tools and support, and you will find nothing but success.

 

~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick

 

Innovation Weight Loss and Fitness

8031 Jericho Tpke Woodbury, NY 11797

469 7th Ave Manhattan, NY 10018

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October 12, 2015By Josephine Fitzpatrick

The Three C’s of Weight Loss

 

When it comes to reaching a real and important goal there are no shortcuts. Making an effective and long lasting change in your habits and lifestyle takes time and determination, and unfortunately there are no secret ways to make things easier and quicker. This is especially true for weight loss because you are going through a physical and mental change. You engage your whole body and mind to reach a weight loss goal. Even though there is no magic spell that will make everything happen overnight, there are three key things to keep in mind and use in your weight loss plan that will help you reach your goal. 

 

COMMITMENT

 

Having mental strength is one of the most important tools in your arsenal. You have to have the strength to resist temptations and you also have to have the strength to pick yourself up and keep yourself motivated when things get difficult. When you doubt yourself, remember how committed you felt when you started. You were full of hope and optimism, and ready to take on anything. It’s hard to constantly stay in this state of excitement and confidence, but hold on tight to your commitment. It will keep you going. 

 

CONVENIENCE 

 

It’s not possible to snap your fingers and get everything we want, but there are ways to make things easier for yourself. Do you have trigger foods that cause you to binge and munch mindlessly? Don’t buy them, even if you tell yourself you won’t touch them or over indulge. Don’t put yourself in that position. Are you planning on going out to a meal or outing? Take a look at the menu ahead of time and have a plan whenever possible. Don’t play it by ear and make decisions in the moment. Do you plan to start or re-commit yourself to exercise? Find a gym or facility that is close to where you live or work and easy to get to. In the winter it will be hard to get out of the house, not to mention going to the gym and working out. If you want to exercise at home, find a space to put the equipment you want to use and get any equipment you want now. It will be hard to skip a workout when all you have to do is get out of bed and get dressed. Putting in a little extra work ahead of time will make your life so much easier when it comes time to execute your plans. 

 

CONSISTENCY

 

This quality is crucial. All the efforts you make mean nothing if you wipe them away the day after. Consistency is the key to your success. It may feel tedious, fighting little battles every day and not getting dramatic results week after week. The truth is, you don’t want dramatic weight loss. When it goes off too quickly, it will come back just as quick which is never healthy. There is a saying: Be stubborn about your goals and flexible about your methods. Consistency doesn’t mean you always have to do the same thing day in and day out, but you do have to make smart and healthy choices that bring you closer to your goals every day. 

 

When you bring these three qualities together and use them as a guide in your weight loss you will have a strong sense of confidence and direction. Decide what you want, go after it with the right tools and support, and you will find nothing but success.

 

~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick 

 

Innovation Weight Loss and Fitness

8031 Jericho Tpke Woodbury, NY 11797

469 7th Ave Manhattan, NY 10018

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