Let It Go…
Just when you think you have it all under control – a busy end of the week comes along and throws you right off your path. Don’t worry, you are not alone. This is such a busy time of year with camp, proms, graduations. There is celebration after celebration and you are trying to be so good but feel the weakness of the struggle. This is when you really need to be your strongest because if you give in there may be no return and that is simply not an option before summer begins. When you live the program, you learn that you can have maintain weeks when it’s busy. That doesn’t mean you treat every day like a Cheat Day or even have a Cheat meal. It means that maybe you had an extra on program snack or two? A little hungrier day and you had an extra mini meal or maybe your food wasn’t as clean as you would have liked but you did your best. We all have busy times and we have to allow for them and learn that the best way to get through them is to not just do the program but learn to live the program and be okay with maintain days when you need them. Sometimes just being okay with it and giving yourself permission is all you really need to stay on program.
1. LIVE THE PROGRAM: Don’t get into the habit of going off and on program, you will end up with more Cheat Days then clean days. In order to live the program there are no “do overs” or “starting fresh” it’s just a continuation of your life. You had an unexpected Cheat Day? Then that becomes your Cheat Day, you don’t just start again. If you eat extra in a day but still keep to on program foods then you call it a Maintain Day. When you get to a great number you don’t just start going back to your old habits, you continue on with the program. Six days clean and one day to indulge should be your way of life.
2. PLAN PLAN PLAN: I can’t say it enough but if you plan your days before you start them you have a 99% chance of sticking to them. Don’t go through the day just not eating or trying to wing it – because once you start eating you won’t stop. If you feel that you can get through the day okay but your nights are sabotaging you? Then save your snacks for night time when you need them. Remember to plan what you are doing when you get home. If you know that you come home and raid the pantry then plan a different routine when you get home. Come home and go for a walk, jump in the pool or take a shower! It may sound silly but once you break your habit that sabotages you, that is all it takes to have better results. Do anything other than your usual walk in the door head and for the pantry.
4) Summer is social and if you know you will be drinking more than usual then keep an eye on how much you are drinking – it’s a trigger. While it can be used as a snack, try and keep it for the weekends. When possible, fuel your body through the week with weight loss choices and keep the alcohol for weekend snacks and Cheat Day only.
This is such a serious time to really concentrate and be as consistent as you can with your meals and snacks. The reason is because the closer it gets to the 4th of July the more drastic you will be willing to try a Fad Diet that will put you in the wrong direction. There are no miracle pills or potions. The only thing that is going to get you to a good place and where you want to be and where you can continue is HARD WORK, BEING PERSISTENT AND CONSISTENT. Just like everything else in life you have to put the work in to get the results. So if you are feeling like, “Oh crap, I only have 4 weeks what pills or potions are out there” – I’m telling you right now to put your efforts into your menu because you know when you do it right it always works for you. Have your one Cheat Day a week and follow your meals and snacks. But you can’t Cheat during the week and then Cheat on the weekend. You can’t Cheat during the week and still have a Cheat Day and you can’t Cheat for 5 days and then be good for 5 days and expect a miracle. It doesn’t work like that. KEEP IT SIMPLE: take the next 4 weeks and follow your menu. Your meals and snacks and include any fun exercise. Have ONE Cheat Day a week and I promise you by 4th of July you will be in such a great place you will be so happy that you did it. Even if you have more to lose you will be so much happier, lighter and thinner than you are today!
When it comes to eating habits, one of the major divides is Foodie vs. Snacker. Do you look forward to your meals where you get to eat your favorite dish? Or do you crave your snacks and savor every bite? Do you like to fill up on your favorite meal or snack during the day on your favorite salty, sweet, crunchy or chocolatey treats? Whether you prefer meals or snacks, even our die-hard foodies have to admit that a delicious On Program snack right when you need it can make your day.
When it comes to snacks, there is another clear divide – Snacking vs. Snack. Though it doesn’t seem like a huge difference, when you break it down these two words mean something completely different. First of all, “snacking” is an action, it’s a verb. So many clients when they first sign up say that at a certain point in their day before they were on program, they would be “snacking” on whatever is around, whatever is in the office or kitchen, or whatever is leftover from their kids’ plates. We’ve all been there – you just keep eating like a marathon and the truth is, all those little bites add up. This mentality of just eating without thinking and without control is one of the main bad habits that you have to break when you start to eat clean. “Snacking” is continuous, it’s something that you do, not something that you eat – as it should be.
The word “snack”, on the other hand, is a noun, it’s a singular thing. It has a beginning and an end, it’s measured and it serves a purpose. Innovation approved snacks provide nutrients as well as healthy carbs, fats, and protein – and they feed your body when you need fuel. That’s what eating clean is all about. Being on program means making choices and planning ahead. Your snacks are clear, portioned and planned. Yes, you can still get your salty fix or satisfy your sweet tooth and stay on program, yes you can have 3 snacks and lose weight – the point is that it’s everything in moderation. You not only lose weight when you pick your snacks instead of constant snacking, but you also stop letting cravings control your life.
There are many reasons why we find ourselves “snacking” – often it is just emotional eating. We are bored or stressed or tired so we look to food to help us. This type of dependance on food is never good. Everything we eat should either be fuel during the week or a treat on our Cheat Day. Because the truth is, snacking won’t make you happy in the long run, it won’t take away your stress (it will probably add to it) and it won’t wake you up without a sugar or caffeine crash later. Another reason we find ourselves “snacking” is because we are busy, rushed or don’t think we have a choice. We are on the go or in a situation where we think we don’t have options. That can mean running errands, traveling, eating out, etc. We feel like we are forced to make decisions we don’t want to make, because of the situation and sometimes because of peer pressure. Our friends and loved ones don’t always know that we feel the need to comprise sometimes when we are around them. But in reality, we often make the wrong choice in these situations because we are looking for a reason to cheat or we are just don’t have the strength to to eat healthy. If these are the choices you make, you have to own up to them and the results that follow. But if you want to be healthy and consistent, you have to seek out the healthy choice and go after it with confidence.
SNACKING is eating out of control
SNACKS are eating with a purpose
The choice is yours
~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick
Innovation Weight Loss and Fitness
8031 Jericho Tpke Woodbury, NY 11797
211 E 43rd Street Manhattan, NY 10019
GAIN? Do you want to gain through the holiday weekend? This sounds so simple right! But what is really disturbing is that it’s even easier than it sounds. You can’t have a Cheat Day and then cheat meals. You can’t do cheating throughout each day with no plan. Trust me, you will forget and think that you weren’t that bad – when in fact you were really bad. While every one of us is different and what we can tolerate is different, when it comes to weight gain I can promise you that if you are overdoing it every day and lose control you will gain weight and it may be more than you can imagine.
If you haven’t been doing the right things you need to stop and think if it’s been affecting you mentally as well as physically. Are you grumpy, unhappy and short tempered because you don’t feel good? Does everything hurt from the time you wake up until you go to bed? Are you living on tums and advil from over eating? Are you moving slower and feeling sad? If this is you and you don’t want it to be you, then only you can change it. I can be here for you and give you all the tools but you still have to do it. So take one moment today and think about where you are right now. Get a pen and paper and write down how you want to feel and what you need to do to change where you are. If summer is motivating for you then write down how you want to feel when summer arrives. Think about the clothes you want to wear and how you want to feel in them and write it down to remind yourself everyday of how important it is. Compare your feelings right now to how you wish you felt. Remind yourself of how you are the only person who can make it happen and think about all the successful people around you and learn from them that it really is possible to look and feel amazing everyday. And all it takes to feel that great every day is staying on your program all week. Follow your menu and it will take you to where you want to be. And remember, the only thing that is standing in your way is the temptation and the mindless eating. Whether it’s from boredom or stress of the family, work, business, life. Unfortunately those stresses will always come and go. It’s part of life and if we are lucky they will never be life threatening. Don’t make them life threatening with the foods you feed yourself to make you feel better. Because it’s always going to be the same food you grab over and over and still to this day doesn’t make you feel better or make the stress go away. It only makes it worse. In order to change your happiness you need to change your habits.
YOUR PATH TO SUCCESS: You need to fight for what you want and only when you fight and you don’t let anything in your way is when you will get it. AND ALWAYS remember you are sticking to your program and doing the right things because IT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD, IT MAKES YOU HAPPY, AND IT MAKES YOU LOOK AMAZING. The consistency of being on program is what gets rid of cravings, it gets rid of the struggle and life becomes easier. Living “six” on and “one” off is what makes you feel good AND it makes you happy. Why fight it. Just do it! There is no excuse you can find around you and no food on the table that is better than feeling good, being in control being happy and looking great. Walk away from temptation and stay on your path. Because staying on your path is what will lead you to success both mentally and physically. Don’t make it harder than it is. Just follow your program and you will feel great.
IT WILL TAKE YOU TO GREAT PLACES
She lives Innovation Healthy everyday and it shows!!!
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