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How often we say it. How often we promise to do it. Yet, how rarely do we actually do the best we can? When we do — when we use all our efforts, when we push through old and new boundaries — the satisfaction is enormous and the rewards are sweeter because we earned them. But the first thing you have to come to terms with is your best really your best? Mindset is everything when it comes to weight loss. When you wake up in the morning and tell yourself — “That’s it!” — You are tired of giving every one else your best, NOW you are going to give yourself your best too!! You are going to put yourself in a place that no matter what — you will do the right thing. You will make sure you walk away when you have to and you will plan, prepare and follow through each day. You not only promise yourself — but you fight through the tough times and you don’t let anything or anyone set you back. So don’t just SAY you are going to try your best THINK IT, BELIEVE IT AND DO IT. Because if you believe that you are going to be amazing then you will be amazing and if you think it’s too hard you can’t do it — you won’t do it.
From the time you wake up in the morning how you think about yourself and your day is going to have a huge impact on your results. Last week we went over how important it is to Fall in love with taking care of yourself. This week I want you to continue that but be excited about it. Be excited about the scale. Be excited about feeling good. Be excited about doing the right things…. And be excited because you are in control of your life and you make the decisions on whether or not you want to live healthy, be thin and feel amazing. No one makes those choices for you. How exciting that you get to wake up today and decide that you want to take care of your body, your mind, your health. You want to work hard toward a goal and you are the only one who can get in the way of that goal. What you want, how bad you want it and hard you work for it will determine your success. How amazing is that — and how EXCITING!
Keep the NEGATIVE OUT: Keep the negative people away, and keep the negative emotions out of your mind. Negative people will always be around. Sometimes we can control their presence and sometimes we can’t. But you always CAN control what you take from them. If you have no choice to be around negative people then it’s important to keep your mindset extra strong. Don’t let them take you to their dark side. Don’t let them talk you into ordering something you don’t want. Don’t let them convince you how hard weight loss is (we already know how hard it is no one has to tell us). Most of all don’t let them take you off your path. Unfortunately even our closest people can take us off our healthy path just because they are in a bad place. The bottom line is misery loves company. It doesn’t mean they don’t love you it just means they want you to share in their misery at that moment. What you do and how you react is your choice. And while it may only be one bad day for them — that one bad moment for you might take you off your path for a week — and then where does that leave you? Stick to what works for — if they love you they will be okay with it. If they are not okay with it then you should re-evaluate your people.
POSITIVE PEOPLE ARE HAPPY PEOPLE
KEEP THE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS OUT OF IT: I can’t, it’s too hard, im sick of it, I should weigh less by now, I want to be at my goal already, they made me do it. I didn’t want to go off I had no choice ……. I can literally go on with this list forever. I have heard it all. If you want to change your results – THEN CHANGE YOUR WORDS. The words you tell yourself are the words you will live — so every time you catch yourself being negative — STOP AND PAUSE and then reverse it. Even if you don’t feel it reverse it anyway and keep your words and thoughts positive. The more you do it the more it will become second nature. No one wants to hear you crying — You don’t even want to hear you crying. Everyone has their own problems and is trying to get through their own tough days. Im sure you are even sick of listening to all the negative excuses that comes out of your mouth — so think of how your family and friends feel. Negative talk does nothing but create negative actions which result in negative results. KEEP IT POSITIVE- POSITIVE -POSITIVE! The more positive you talk to yourself the better results you will think….. The more positive you results you think the more positive you will speak…… the more positive results you speak the better results you will feel. While I know you already know all of this — it never hurts to be reminded so you can reevaluate your words, thoughts and environment. We can fool others. But we can’t fool ourselves. When you are honest with yourself it will bring freedom for you to work harder. Only you truly know what your best is. And when you give less than your best those are the results you have to live with.
Halloween Pumpkins, Ghosts, Thanksgiving, Fall Shopping, Leaves Changing….
What is not to Love about Fall?!
FALL IN LOVE WITH TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY: Sometimes it’s not enough to just take care of your body. When you FALL in love with taking care of your mind and body it can be life changing. It doesn’t matter where you are right now — if you are just starting, have been on program or returning… wherever you are the most important thing to start with is to remind yourself daily how important it is to feel good about yourself and how happy it makes you when you are doing the right things — and you are the only person that can make that happen.
DON’T JUST DO THE PROGRAM — LIVE THE PROGRAM
In the beginning of the program (the first couple of weeks) you just need to get through the weeks to get to your cheat day. The Cheat Day is life saving as it helps you stay on program the other six weight loss days. but after a couple of weeks and after seeing some really nice changes — it should start to become more than getting through your six clean days to get to your cheat day. In fact, it should start to reverse. You should start to live for the six clean days. The Cheat Day is fun and always look forward to it, but your body and mind should begin to understand and take notice that you feel your very best on your six clean days. Mentally you start to look forward to them — at the end of your Cheat Day you can’t wait to eat clean the next day. You can’t wait for a couple of clean days to pass — so you can feel better and get back to the lighter and cleaner feeling you love. You can’t wait to get back on the track of eating clean knowing that you are back to fueling your body with healthy and clean eating and in return it’s working your numbers in the right direction. By mid week you should begin to get excited wondering what you will lose this week. The closer you are to your menu the more weight you will lose. Will you see a new number and will it be the lowest one you have seen in a long time? It is so exciting to take care of yourself to the point of loving it. Loving how you feel and loving how it’s changing you mentally and physically. When you love feeling good, healthy, lighter, fitter and thinner there is truly no better feeling and no better way to live. It’s a positive addiction that you should want and love.
TRUE STORY: Clients literally text me all the time and say “I have to start sending my food again”, or “I have to get back on program.” A client just texted me yesterday and said “I have to get back on program. I don’t know why I go off program every time I am off program I am miserable and when I’m on program doing the right things and taking care of my body I am so happy. My husband told me last night it’s time to get back to Josephine. He didn’t say it because of the weight he said it because he knows how happy and good I feel when I am on program and he sees how miserable I am when I’m off.” MY RESPONSE: YAY!!!! — that of course makes me so happy! I never want anyone unhappy but it absolutely thrills me when clients realize that being on program is when they are the happiest. They are the happiest because they feel the best. So why do we go off program when being on makes us so happy? The answer is simple — no matter how great being on program makes us feel we will always have little slip ups and hiccups because life gets in the way. And once it’s in the way and we lose that control — our brain takes over and it can take days, weeks and sometimes months to get back on path. But the most important thing is that you do get back on path because you know that is when you feel the absolute best!
FOCUS: This week try focusing on your six clean days instead of focusing on your Cheat Day. Think about each day and how good you feel when you go to bed because you followed the program and stayed 100%, and think about how amazing you feel when you wake up. Whenever we do the right things for our body it changes us as people. We are happier, and proud of ourself and how we are treating our bodies. We are proud of the way we look and feel. I don’t think anyone can say that they don’t feel anything but amazing when they get dressed in the morning and feel great in their clothes. If you want that to be you then you need to work for it. If you want to feel good all week then you need to stay focused and positive about your clean days. Don’t focus on the one Cheat Day — focus on how you feel the six clean days… you feel lighter, healthier, thinner — and how you feel when you followed all week and at the end of that week you step on the scale — so proud, super happy, like you want to jump around and tell the world you did it — you followed you lost weight and you feel great!!
FALLING IN LOVE WITH WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND WHAT IT’S DOING FOR YOU: When you do the right things for your body, and make the right choices, and fuel your body with the right foods, you feel better. Some weeks will always be harder than others but if you stay true to what you want and what makes you feel the best and keep positive everyday knowing this is what makes you happy — then you will start falling in love with what you are doing and what it’s doing for you. When this happens you will never want to go back to treating your body unhealthy — because you know feeling like that makes you unhappy. Why would you want to do anything that makes you unhappy or not feel good? Stay positive and remember what makes you feel your best and what makes the changes in your body the best it can be. Stay focused and positive on your six clean days and how they are changing your body and then you will truly enjoy your cheat day.
LOVE THE RESULTS: As much as you love and enjoy the Cheat Day you realize that every consecutive six clean days that you complete is what is changing your body. It’s changing how you look, it’s changing the scale and most important, it’s changing how you feel. When you fall in love with taking care of our body and fall in love with feeling the very best that you can — it no longer is about the one Cheat Day a week. It’s about the six clean days that you are fueling you body with healthy clean portioned foods that make you feel your best.
There is no better feeling than taking care of yourself. There is no better feeling than doing the right thing for your body and your mind. There is no better feeling than being the best you can be.
“LOVE YOURSELF INSIDE AND OUT”
~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick
This past weekend was pretty awesome. We had so many clients losing weight and reaching numbers they thought they would never see. Super super exciting! I love that I can just see, hear, and feel the excitement in the clients. Everyone is really working hard and in a “hardcore”state of mind to reverse the quarantine weight, and/or reach new goals or see numbers they have not seen in years.
For most of you, the Innovation Program is not a diet — it’s a way of life. You live it and you love the way it makes you feel. And this is the time of year — especially after quarantine that you know how important it is to give it that little extra hard work that really pulls it all together so you get the very best results every single week. For others, this is all new and while you may be just starting or in it for a couple of weeks — it will come together and you all of a sudden realize how hard you have to work to lose weight but you also realize when you do work hard and stay on your path and eat clean 6 days at 110% consistency — that’s when you will get the best results. I say it all the time… in all aspects of life if you work hard you will get the results. Weight loss is something you should not mind working hard at because it’s for your health both mentally and physically. — My clients love to send me pics (and I absolutely love getting them) and I can’t begin to describe the changes in clients when they lose weight and eat clean — and how it gives them an extra bounce in their step and personality — it’s sheer happiness that is beaming from their healthy hydrated skin.
It’s mid – July and everyone is just so excited to be losing weight and really excited to be feeling great and doing the right thing. It’s truly when you can enjoy the most is when you feel great. So if you want to enjoy the vacation out east or the extra drinks throughout the week you must stay on program because you can enjoy and lose weight — and when you do both that is when you feel great. When you feel great is when you truly enjoy everything you are doing. You ever notice when you feel great how contagious it is — everyone wants to be a part of feeling great. There is so much sadness is the world — today you have to make sure you appreciate and enjoy every bit of happiness that comes your way. Most important is to make sure you are creating your own happiness everyday. That’s what you do on the Program — you do the right thing and lose weight and feel great and it gives you happiness that you have 100% control over.
If you want to be that happy person and you want to put your clothes on and feel good and go out and feel amazing, if you want that happy feeling of control in what you are doing — then you need to be 110% committed to the program and to yourself. If you are, I promise you that you will feel the best and you will l look the best you every thought possible.
My last thought for you on this beautiful day …. IT’S HARD — weight loss is hard — BUT IT’S SO WORTH IT. Will you feel hungry? Yes, you will feel hungry but think about it — you feel hungry even on the days you are over eating. So at least when you have a little hunger now you know that it’s because you are losing weight and getting results from it. The clients that have done amazing and continue to do amazing know how tough it is and when it get’s tough they remind themselves how much they want this and how important it is to them. If you want it then don’t let anything or anyone get in your way. Don’t look back and wish you did better over quarantine – because it doesn’t matter that time has passed and the only thing you can do right now is stop making excuses and move on to a better today, tomorrow and week. Don’t bother looking back — only look forward because that is what you have control over. Don’t let another week go by without doing the right thing because it will only add up and the longer you delay it the harder it will be. If you do it right now and focus on a better today, then tomorrow will be easier and by next week you will feel amazing and in control. If you want to feel great, happy, lighter and enjoy your summer feeling inspired, motivated and in control — then you have to put the work in starting today and you have to commit to yourself and live the program. Eat clean 6 days a week and enjoy your once a week cheat day. Before you know it you will be the happy, excited, inspired person waking up, jumping out of bed and excited to get dressed. Because you feel good and there is nothing better than feeling good about yourself especially when you know that YOU are the one who made it happen.
It’s not something you can wish for — it’s something you have to WORK for.
~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick
Now that Quarantine is almost over we are feeling many different emotions. While we couldn’t wait for it to end— many of you now wish you had more time. Quarantine and May has brought an internal battle that for many of you were not expecting and quite possibly not ready for. What I mean is that while we weren’t quite sure when quarantine would end — you did know June and warmer weather were around the corner with the tank tops, shorts, sundresses and bathing suits — but with each quarantine day you felt like you had more time. While many have taken charge and became instant sharks — others are struggling with the “why didn’t I do it when I had the time” and “I’m just not ready for this.” It’s the internal battle of emotions that are telling you now you have no choice. It has come and you are panicking because you are not ready. Regardless of where you are or where you wish you were you need to fight through these emotions and get past it. Here are some suggestions if you are struggling:
DON’T LOOK FOR EXCUSES… Focus on staying on your path and following your program. It works and you will do it and see the results. It just takes time and you are going to feel hungry and it’s not always the best feeling starting again but it will get better. Weight Loss is hard for everyone. The longer you do it and live it the easier it will be. When you stay on your program six days and cheat one day you will lose the weight.
KEEP YOUR FOCUS IN THE RIGHT PLACE… Should I skip my cheat day? Should I not have snacks? I can’t tell you how many times people say I think I should skip the Cheat Day. Before you ask yourself if you should skip it — let’s ask is that even possible? You are struggling enough having one cheat day so why are you even contemplating having none? For every client who has reached their goal they did it with a cheat day every week. There is no reason to give it up — just don’t have two in one week.
SNACKS… If you are struggling don’t give up snacks. It’s important to have your 3 snacks to keep your day in control. Once you are back in control then you can always go to 2 snack or 1 depending on where you are and where you want to be.
PUT THE TIME IN BECAUSE THERE IS NO QUICK FIX… I promise you regardless what you try to do quick you will end up right back here at the beginning and hopefully with not more weight than you started with. The only way to lose the weight is slow and steady. You have to put the work in like everyone else. Fat doesn’t come on or off overnight. Put the time in and focus on losing 1-3 lbs a week. Week after week the weight loss adds up and it add up fast.
IT’S NEVER TOO LATE… Even if you have been horrible in quarantine and feel like it will be forever before you lose the weight… just remember that it’s not about the end result it’s about every week feeling better and better. After 5 pounds you will feel great and after 10 pounds you will feel amazing. Going into the summer losing is going to feel a whole lot better than staying the same and/or gaining.
CONSISTENCY = FAT BURN… I know I have said this over and over but there is a reason I say it. To get the best results in weight loss you need to be consistent. The consistency puts your body in a “fat burn process” and your body will run like a weight loss machine. The longer you are in and the more consistent you are the better the results. If you keep turning the machine on and off it will continually shut down and you will have to restart it all over again. It’s very simple — the more time you put in the better the results. The more consistent you are the more consistent the results. Every time you take yourself out of the “fat burn process” then you have to make up that time to get your body back into the process. So basically every time you decide to do cheat weekends instead of a cheat day — you are taking yourself out of the process and it will take you days to get back in it and have your body start losing again from where it left off. ** Make sure if you are doing cheat weekend they are worth it.
THE SCALE… Whatever you do don’t get overwhelmed with the number — it’s a very simple process and if you do the right thing the number will go down. If you follow your program — it will go down. Some weeks it may not be as much as you want and others it will be more than you expected. When you are losing body fat the key is to keep moving forward in the right direction and your body will follow and get smaller every week.
I always like to mention and address the clients who are doing absolutely amazing. This past weekend even with the holiday we had record numbers who lost weight. Many took the opportunity of the quarantine to do the right thing and stay on program and check in every week and it paid off. What I can tell you is if you want this you can do it. You have all the tools to keep you on your path… the Innovation food, the motivation, the accountability, and the idea of summer clothes are only weeks away. The clients who stayed focused and motivated through quarantine are not all sharks, many were turtles and snails but throughout the quarantine they remained consistent. So while I often address those who are struggling because they need it the most, I know it’s so important to celebrate and congratulate all of those who have done and continue to do amazing because they deserve and need it as well. It’s always nice to hear praise and feel that accomplishment but let’s face it the true gift to them is the new body that they love and live in everyday. There is no better feeling.
If you want to love the way you look and feel then you have to do the right things, you need to work hard put the time in and be consistent. When summer comes your emotions will be happy, healthy, controlled and you will be so excited to see the sunshine and 80 degree weather even if it’s only in your own backyard.
If You Want To Feed Yourself Something
Feed it Happiness
~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick
SCALE NOT MOVING?
If the scale stopped moving it’s most likely because you stopped moving too! Rainy days and quarantines can make for a very unhealthy lifestyle for weight loss and health!
DID YOU KNOW…. Based on a study of more than 220,000 people, researchers found that the longer you spend sitting down every day, the higher your risk of dying prematurely, even if you engage in regular exercise. And if that isn’t scary enough then you should know sitting down for long periods of time isn’t just bad for your metabolism, it can also make you age quicker too. New research has found that sitting down for long periods of time even with regular exercise can make a person’s cells age prematurely. Yikes!
Why does this happen?… Because you are not meant to sit you are built to stand upright. Your heart and cardiovascular system work more effectively that way. Your bowel system also functions more efficiently when you are upright. You are also meant to move! When you are moving, your overall energy levels and endurance improve, and your bones maintain strength. Moving your muscles helps your body digest the fats and sugars you eat. If you spend a lot of time sitting, digestion is not as efficient, so you retain those fats and sugars as fat in your body. — Yikes again!
Interesting fact…. Your legs and gluteals, are the biggest muscles in your body and when used they burn the most calories. That’s why runners, long distance walkers, and lower body training will always have and create leaner bodies because they are working their legs and gluteals, and burning the most calories. These large muscles are important for weight loss and overall strength to help stabilize the body. Sitting for long periods can lead to weakening and wasting away of the large leg muscle and gluteal muscles. What happens when your leg muscles waste away?… you don’t burn as many calories because you no longer have the biggest muscles in your body and if that isn’t bad enough you end up with all fat and cellulite. Because prolonged periods of sitting reduce blood flow and that creates fat and cellulite. Just another big reason to get up and go…..
Live Longer!… Physical inactivity contributes to over three million preventable deaths worldwide each year. It is the fourth leading cause of death due to non-communicable diseases. It’s also the cause of approx. 30 per cent of breast, colon cancers, diabetes and heart disease. So next time you are at your desk and working 8 hours straight think about the damage you can be doing to your body. Set the timer and make sure you are moving. It’s something you have complete control over to change.
Feeling Sad?… We don’t really understand the links between sitting and mental health as much as we do the links between sitting and physical health. But we do know that the risk of both anxiety and depression is much higher in people that sit more.
Have I made my point yet?… if not, let me make it clear — it’s time to stop sitting and start moving! And walking your plate to the sink doesn’t count.
Move More In Quarantine….. An hour of exercise a day is just not enough in quarantine. Before quarantine you were exercising an hour a day and then you were running errands, work, sports, shopping, kids etc… Now you exercise and hour a day and you sit a lot more than you used too.
A SIMPLE FIX:
Today is more challenging than ever because you are not always on the go. Being sedentary is definitely going to play a part in how your body looks and functions. So whether you are cleaning, playing with the kids, walking, biking, jogging, …. find the time to move and make the excuses to keep moving as much as you can. It will help you mentally and physically feel so much better today, tomorrow, next week and next month.
IT’S NEVER ABOUT HAVING THE TIME — IT’S ABOUT MAKING THE TIME
~Love to Live Healthy with Josephine Fitzpatrick
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